We don’t know how good we have it with our cellphones and dating apps. Our good hips and sharp eyes.

And yet, residents of The Summit at First Hill retirement home in Seattle, Washington, wouldn’t trade their lives for any of those things. That would mean losing their own stories and memories, things they have not only lived, but lived to tell.

That’s the take-away from The Faces Of The Summit, a photo exhibit that captures the faces and words of more than 20 residents ranging in age from 85 to 102. The exhibit is hanging in a horseshoe of hallways on the home’s first floor and is open to the public. There’s no plan to take it down.

When the exhibit opened, the place had the feel of a school event. Excited family and friends filled the lobby while residents jockeyed their walkers around corners, lingered near their own photographs or sat on couches, basking in the new attention.

The exhibit was planned by Marilyn Israel and Leslie Block of The Summit’s Life Enrichment team. They couldn’t believe the response. Just that morning, two residents were on the TV news. “We didn’t think of it being newsworthy,” Block said.

“Our intent was to create an interesting activity for the residents,” Israel said. “We were trying to honour the elders.”

Said Block: “We look at people, but do we really see them?”

Essie Fleisch, a resident at the Summit at First Hill senior home, who declined to give her age, with her photo, which is part of a show. Over 20 portraits of residents were featured.

Residents volunteered to be part of the exhibit, and had their hair and makeup done by volunteer Valerie Spencer – a Mary Kay representative. “I think when they get to be this age sometimes, they give up hope,” said Spencer. “And they think, ‘Why bother?’ Here, they felt like queen for a day. Younger.”

“And empowered,” added Israel. “All of a sudden, they felt very special.”

“It shows in the pictures,” said Block. “They got swag.”

Photographer Jessica Keener, who is just 30, said she was changed by her experience with the residents. “I don’t get to interact much with older people,” she said. “And I learned that I want to do that more. Because I learned so much. So many of them don’t take things too seriously.”

Block did most of the interviews. She started by asking residents for life advice. If that drew “a blank stare”, she said she would ask them to describe a favourite experience or a favourite memory. “Some people would say, ‘My life was boring,’ and I’d ask, ‘Where were you born?’ and then they started talking.”

That’s how they learned that resident Michaela Lobel, 94, had been hit by an SUV while crossing the street in her native New York City, where she lived until just a couple of years ago. (“I came here, naturally, because of my daughter,” said Lobel. “About 97% of the people are here because of their daughters.”)

Lobel told Block about the doctor who took her right hand as she lay in the street, asking if she knew her own name, and the messenger who took her other hand and told her, “Yo, Momma. You’re gonna be all right.”

That’s also how they learned that resident Anne Mezistrano Hirschhorn was born in a house at 27th and Yesler 89 years ago, and that her first job was at the Yesler Avenue branch of the Seattle Public Library. “I had been there so much, they knew me well,” Hirschhorn said. “Paid me 25 cents an hour.”

‘I don’t get to interact much with older people. And I learned that I want to do that more,’ said photographer Keener.

Frieda Feinberg was born in Dresden, Germany. When she and her mother tried to board a ship bound for the United States, they were turned down. Two days later, they boarded another boat and learned that the first one had sunk. “I know, I know,” said Feinberg in front of her portrait. “When I think about it more, why were my mother and I selected not to go on the original ship?”

Her husband, Schick, recalled being stationed in Tokyo during WWII and walking to synagogue one night when they ran into General Douglas MacArthur. “Glad to see we have some pious young soldiers,” MacArthur told them.

The Feinbergs have two children, nine grandsons, 53 great-grandchildren and two great-great-grandchildren, and lost a daughter six years ago. “You’ve got to keep living, you know?” Frieda said. “People realise that if they weren’t here, well, they may not be alive.”

Jack Moshcatel, 89, had just been dropped off after having breakfast with his children in Columbia City, where he lived before moving into The Summit two years ago. (“My kids suggested it,” he said.) Moshcatel wasn’t interested in taking a look at his portrait. The Seahawks game had already started, and, after all, “The guy in the portrait is much better looking than I am.”

Seattle gave him a good life, he said. Work, kids, community. He still goes down to the old neighbourhood to get his hair cut – but in an Uber. “But I miss being able to do what I’d like to do,” he said. “Don’t grow old. That’s all I can tell you.”

Essie Fleisch was married twice. She met her first husband when he approached her at an event and asked her to dance. Her second husband took her on the Staten Island Ferry on their first date. “You wouldn’t believe how romantic the Staten Island Ferry can be.”

Irma Hillman talked about how much she loved teaching. Sylvia Slomin Hayden wrote a poem called My Day. Adele Sharaga helped raise the money to build a hospital and calls herself “the luckiest mother at The Summit” because she lives just two blocks from her son, Ken.

Katherine Scharhon wrote about her love of baking, and how she has made “thousands” of borecas pastries, keeping a Sephardic tradition. Naomi Henryson, 102, offered up the secret to a long life: “There is no secret.” Alan Stone used to wake up every morning, look at his wife, Bonnie, and say “I’m sorry.” He figured it gave him a pass for the rest of the day.

Lobel was surprised at what she learned about other residents, and what she shared with Block and the photographer. “I haven’t been telling people all this stuff,” she said. “Maybe I just wanted to say I lived a life and it was wonderful. And these are my memories.”

As she spoke, her bracelet kept clicking against the table. She held it up. It was clear plastic, with insects embedded within, as if caught in amber. “This is iconic,” she said, adding that she bought it from a street vendor at Columbus Circle who lived in the Bronx. He was shot 41 times by New York City police officers who mistook him for a rape suspect and thought he was reaching for a gun.

Wait a second, I said. She was referring to Amadou Diallo, whose death made international news. “That was Amadou,” she said. The killing of Diallo was referenced in songs by everyone from Bruce Springsteen to Wyclef Jean to jazz trumpeter Roy Campbell Jr. to Lauryn Hill.

“That was him,” she said. “I have met incredible people.” She was lost in thought for a moment, then turned back to me. “So here I am at The Summit.” – The Seattle Times/Tribune News Service

Residents checking out their portraits, which are accompanied by participants reflections on ageing, and other experiences.